HUMANS AND THEIR AMATORY EMOTIONS! BY NONSO ASIEGBU






     HUMANS AND THEIR AMATORY EMOTIONS!


Our emotions are not meant to rein us, we are meant to rein our emotions: your emotions can ruin your life if you allow them to rein your life; they can put you in doom only if you have given them the room to control your life. There are manifold emotions humans are capable of expressing, but I am talking about AMATORY EMOTIONS in this piece.


Dogmatically, love is a quality every man that has a life in him MUST have, it is a congenital gift of life: it's left to man to choose those to express such quality to & those he won't show love, hence AMATORY EMOTIONS & RELATIONSHIPS exist. So, utilize the gift of love in you wisely & efficiently.


That reminds me the kind of thoughts I was having about 10-15 years ago: I was thinking then that those brothers and sisters who dedicated themselves devoutly in the things of God abhorred AMATORY RELATIONSHIPS between opposite sex, I saw them then as those who would end up as Saints & Martyrs; but that were awry thoughts of my mind, I was judging them with single story. Expressing our feelings of love ain't sin, what make it sinful are our desires for expressing it, in what ways/manners it is expressed, to whom it is expressed, where & when it is done.


In the world today, some express their feelings of love for others for selfish and sinful desires: for sex, for money, Inter Alia; notwithstanding the nasty part of it, yet some do it the right way, they express love because they mean it & not for nasty desires. You see, the world in its entirety does everything to eradicate MALARIA, but neglecting the greatest ailment of humans which is "MANNERIA". Our manners portray a lot about us, they depict who we are & what we are truly made of. DO YOU HAVE GOOD MANNERS OR ARE YOU SUFFERING FROM "MANNERIA"?


Yes, it's believed that imperfections flow in the stream of humans, but that notwithstanding, we ought to do the right things which we are meant to do in life. I myself am human, I have feelings, I have emotions: there was a particular girl I cherished so much, she had up to 80% of the qualities I need in a girl who is to become my girlfriend, her behaviors were really the major cynosures that got attracted to her, her ways & nature alone were enthusing me. I was hiding my amatory feelings for her until the day I mustered up and opened up to her [but before doing that, I have made up my mind to accept what may be her reply], this was happening around 6 months of knowing her. What really happened? She told me evidently that she loved me but not to  the ambit of dating me, why? Because she already had someone she is strongly in love with. Initially, I thought she was trying to push me away maybe because I was not financially buoyant or because I wasn't that pretty.


As matter of  fact, I didn't give up, I tried once again, yet she gave me the same answer, & even reminded me that she had told me something of that nature in the past: I accepted my fate, I didn't hate her, I didn't see her as a nefarious person; I just took it as how God needed it to be, this was owing to the fact that I controlled my emotions and not the other way round. And your girlfriend woke up one day & told you that your relationship with her will be free of romance henceforth. Taking yourself to be her boyfriend, can you still love her under such condition? You will love her if you truly love her, but you will start deserting her if you love her for romantic desires.


I had come across many girls whom I can take advantage of  sexually, what I will tell them ain't a big deal, my antics and tricks alone can overwhelm their true sense of reasoning. But my conscience can't let me to do such, the scruples in me can't give me the green light. Not that I don't have phallus, or maybe mine is not working properly, but I still have scruples in doing such things. My reputations would be tainted, doing what I forbid others to do: what will they say about me? I'd behold many pulchritudinous lassie, who really trigger the spirit of sexual love and lustful desires in me; but my life is not created in such a way to do so, I can't see a pretty girl just today and ask her to be my girlfriend the same day...no...not really my trend. I will need ample time, say minimum of 6 months, at least to study her behaviors, to know her more, for us to be more intimate: sharing the stories of our lives & our life experiences with each other. If we truly love each other, If it will be possible for us to be together, if our hearts are really compatible, then, 6 months is okay for us to discover what we evidently feel for each other. 

FAILING TO EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS FOR YOUR PARAMOUR KILLS A TRUE RELATIONSHIP BEYOND EXPECTATIONS, TRY TO SHOW YOUR LOVER WHAT YOU FEEL FOR HIM/HER, BECAUSE DOING SO ESCALATES BETWEEN LOVERS TRUE SPIRIT OF CORDIALITY, AMITY, RECIPROCITY & INEXTRICABLE UNITY.

I PRAY THAT GOD WILL BLESS YOU WITH THE RIGHT PERSON, AMEN!


AUTHORED BY ***NDJP***

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